A lot of breaking the pattern comes in evaluating the type of people we choose to date. Often, we choose to overlook red flags early on, rather than listening to our intuition. Other times, we can only understand who someone is with time. Having strong boundaries and healthy self worth go a long way in helping to break the cycle.

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