How tough is it, really? A look into rape culture can show you exactly how tough it is to be a woman and regularly objectified. It isn’t flattering. While many men may struggle to understand the dynamic, it isn’t beyond the realm of possibility for any of you to do your research and to listen to women who are saying that this isn’t only completely unacceptable but actively harmful to our well-being. Desire could have been expressed in a way that wasn’t demeaning. Thanks so much for reading!