I actually quite enjoy the work of Kris Gage. I do think, though, that there’s an issue with non-attachment being praised as the pinnacle of healthy relationships. When practiced correctly, I think it can be healthy, but I think we all deserve to feel secure in ourselves and others through a securely attached relationship. I’ve actually read recently that the disconnect with non-attachment vs secure attachment is that Buddhism defines security differently than the Western definition, which could be creating the misconceptions around how to practice it.