I agree. I think many of us use the Golden Rule not to treat others with basic respect and kindness but to show them how we actually want to be treated. I don't think it's usually done intentionally, but there are often unspoken expectations that we didn't realize were there until we're disappointed. Thank you for reading! I appreciate you sharing this valuable perspective. I especially agree about giving people what they need rather than what we want to give as a way of showing love.