I agree with all of this, but particularly the connection. One of the most common complaints I hear from women is that they often feel objectified during sex--- that it’s not about sex with this specific person; it feels like it could be just anyone. Having a partner who wants to be with you, specifically, leads to a vastly improved sexual experience.

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