I’m going to make him read your response later. I took the test again, and I’m still solidly INFJ. I get his disbelief because he’s seen a highly social side of me. I think that speaks more to my total comfort in his presence than to any extroversion on my part. It’s contextual. I’m social with him because I’m deeply comfortable and enjoy our time together- whether other people are around or not. I know it might read like a red flag, but I can firmly say that it’s not simply because my best friend who knows me better than anyone thinks he has a point. Sometimes our own perspectives can be skewed by our belief systems about who we are, and it can create a block to self-awareness. I’m open to considering that I’m showing more extroverted traits recently, but I still maintain that I’m an introvert who is capable of being selectively social when I’m comfortable with the company.

Don’t worry: our relationship is built on snark and banter. He may laugh at me on this one, but that sort of thing goes both ways. The important part is that we keep each other laughing- and we keep exploring who we are together and at an individual level. :)