I'm not screaming bias, but you are wrong. Full stop. The worst thing to be is not a white male in a system that both represents and caters to him--though I would argue you're speaking of a cishet white male. Additionally, cancel culture is simply accountability culture where people are being held responsible for their actions by experiencing the natural consequences of them. This isn't a matter of caring what other people think of me. This is about how language that demeans and objectifies is actively harmful and perpetuates rape culture and misogyny. Perhaps it would be better to educate yourself on these things than railing against them without a full understanding of systems of oppression.