It isn't a joke. It's actively harmful to women. To all women. It perpetuates rape culture and misogyny. Women also have physical desire, often before developing feelings. Most of us are just capable of communicating in a way that isn't dehumanizing or degrading. I appreciate that it seems harmless to you, but I and many other women here are trying to impress upon you that it's not, and none of us are laughing. Thanks so much for taking the time to read and comment. I hope it provided a much-needed perspective in how comments like this are received (regardless of how they might be intended).