It’s not mockery to point out that your attitude seems heavily skewed toward believing the worst and feeling like the victim. My friendships are mature. I don’t wait for others to make contact. I ask them what’s going on if I don’t know already. I don’t assume they aren’t good friends. I give them time and space to deal with life issues that might not be my business. Your reply seems very triggered. A trauma therapist could help you work through that. You obviously have strong feelings about this topic and aren’t willing to consider another POV.