I’ve heard that definition, but I can say from my own experience that there were a lot of lessons along the way but when I met my soulmate it was a clear and right match. I don’t think that those things and people that broke me along the way were soulmates. I think a soulmate is the person who stays and who is our definitive person. With that being said, I think it can be a friend or ourselves or even more than one in a lifetime. It’s interesting to think about, but I will say that when you know, you know — as annoying and cliched as that is.