Once again: I personally have never heard a woman use this term. It's not a PREVALENT thing. I didn't say it didn't exist. Only that it's not commonly used. This isn't misandry. It's not misandry to address problematic terminology that objectifies and demeans women.

Your theories about attraction and gender are outdated and misogynistic. Men being "visual" isn't a free pass to be offensive, harmful, or demeaning to women. There's not a perception that objectification exists. It exists. Any rebuttal to that is invalidating and demeaning in itself.

Further, this isn't about women being morally superior. It's about the system of patriarchy and the rape culture that is maintained in it. Please educate yourself on this topic. It's not the job of women to do the work for you to understand.