Thank you so much for writing this! I hear so many men talk about how awful marriage is, but what they complain about is either an unhealthy partnership (that they chose) or the divorce process. They seem to forget that it's possible to choose healthy partners and to have healthy relationships, which would impact the quality of the marriage. Even in the comments, it's one man after another completely missing the point that women tend to opt out of marriage because of systemic inequality while men opt out of marriage because of a fear of divorce (which is not the same thing as marriage). Great read!