That’s certainly one take on this. I fail to see how it’s shallow to look for the right relationships versus just any relationship. You seem to have the impression that someone wasn’t “good enough” when I guarantee in any relationship described that I left I wasn’t, in fact, treated well. You’ve made a lot of assumptions while entirely missing the point.

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