That’s such a fantastic point! I’ve never heard anyone tell an extrovert that they should spend more time indoors and reading, away from people. It would be an interesting social experiment to start suggesting it to those same extroverts who often give out the unsolicited advice on leaving our cozy caves to go out and be among crowds.
I’m often told that I need to get more comfortable in crowds on my own, but it seems silly to me to go places I don’t want to be. I’m perfectly happy to be social with people I know. I don’t really have an interest in being out in crowds without a purpose. Let’s definitely allow each other our differences in personality!!!