This article literally talked about the process of dating, not the people I’m dating so I’m confused about the comments offering advice on what is perceived to be “my league”. Wanting to go out on actual dates and enjoy them is the point. I think many women are voicing this, and instead of being heard, we’re offered the advice to improve ourselves, lower our standards for the people we choose to date, or both. Many of us have already done the work. We’re just inundated with partner options who haven’t.