This is it exactly. I had to want better for myself. Having everyone tell me that the person I was with wasn’t good for me didn’t really work. And honestly, I had one relationship where friends told me what they thought I wanted to hear instead of the truth, and I would have been ready for the truth at that point. I’d much rather have brutal honesty about my relationship and then a lot of encouragement about myself as a person.

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