What often happens is that their partners aren’t even interested in living up to the potential their significant others see, or only want to in a vague way if no effort is required of them. I’ve disconnected from attaching to potential. I’m all for supporting someone’s personal growth in a healthy relationship, but I’m not building a relationship on the idea of their potential.

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