WOW! Way to miss the point here. It sounds like a therapist would help you evaluate your perspective. These are all tips anyone can use to build a healthy relationship. Yay for you finding a beautiful girlfriend, but that doesn't mean the relationship is healthy just because it's (a) a relationship and (b) with someone attractive. To be a better partner takes accountability, self-awareness, and a willingness to grow. Your response doesn't seem like you're open to any of that.