You should probably read up on feminism. It has nothing to do with “feminine" values and everything to do with advocating for gender equality. Your response, while clearly well-meaning, shows that you don’t actually understand the movement. And she’s 100% right that incels are blaming everyone but themselves for their celibacy when therapy, social skills, etc would likely go a long way to helping them establish intimacy.

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