Your perspective isn't mature; it's misogynistic. I'm not declaring every woman a victim, but I am stating that some internalize misogyny and perpetuate rape culture. Just because they don't consider themselves oppressed doesn't make them any less so. Bottom line, women can be sexual and vibrant at any age, and that still doesn't give any person the right to objectify and demean them. Women can enjoy sexual freedom and still demand equality and respect to go with it. Understanding that is maturity; failing to understand that but doing research to learn more about this topic rather than expecting women to educate you on systemic oppression within a patriarchal society --that's also maturity.